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"Although, historically, stepfamilies are built through the institution of marriage, and are 
legally recognized, it is currently unclear if a stepfamily can be both 
established and recognized by less formal arrangements, such as when a man or 
woman with children cohabits with another man or woman outside of marriage. This 
relationship is becoming more common in all Western countries. Many divorced 
parents, often with children, re-couple with new partners outside of traditional 
                        marriage. 
Historically and to this day, there appear to be many cultures in which these families are recognized 
                        socially, as de facto families. However in modern 
western culture it is often unclear as what, if any, social status and protection they enjoy in law. 
The stepparent is a "legal stranger" in most of the US and has no legal right 
to the minor child no matter how involved in the child's life they are. The 
biological parents (and, where applicable, adoptive parents) hold that privilege 
and responsibility. So if the biological parent doesn't give up his or her 
parental rights and custodial to the child, a parent's subsequent marriage 
cannot create a stepparent relationship without the parent written consent 
before a "child" reaches adulthood. In most cases, the stepparent can not be 
ordered to pay child support. 
Still it is not at all clear what formal parenting  roles, rights, responsibilities and social 
etiquette, should exist between 
"stepparents" and their "stepchildren". This often leaves the parents in 
unexpected conflicts with each other, their former spouses and 
the children. 
For all the confusion which stepparents may feel, it is often even less clear 
to the stepchildren what the interpersonal relationships are, or 
should be between themselves and their stepsiblings; between themselves and 
their stepparent; and even between themselves and their birth parents. 
These relationships can be extremely complex, especially in circumstances 
where each "step spouse" may bring children of their own to the home or in households where 
children are expected to actively participate in each of the newly created 
families of both birth parents. 
Although most stepfamilies can agree on what they do not want to be for one 
another, they are often hard pressed to agree upon what they do want to be for 
one another. This makes it difficult for everyone in the family to learn their 
roles. It is especially 
difficult for the children, because the roles and expectations of them change as 
they move between the homes and families of both of their birth parents." 
                        Exert taken from 
                        Wkipedia....however the step father in these movies 
                        would pay little attention to his 'rights' as a step 
                        father!!! 
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